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Sunday, May 11, 2014

LOVE

when we are young, love is so easy to do, the meaning is all so simple. When we are children love is never really explained to us, it was just something that we kept on hearing, and we were told that it was something positive and that love is sensible. By the time we are pre-teens, love changes us. Into very emotional prone drama maniacs, but some teens live sheltered lives and are still unaware about how love can make someone go crazy. Then, we are in smack in the middle of the teen decade, and we think we might know what love is, that wonderful, trip to the moon kiss or that sensational moment when looking into each other's eyes, feeling each other's heart beat. It may seem all so magical. For the first two weeks, then the person (or you) might feel the same incredible ride with a totally different person. Thus, ending the previous relationship of which was defined perhaps two weeks ago as "made in Heaven". This very confusing, very stressful, yet completely routine cycle goes on for a couple of years, however; some teens are late bloomers. But then there are the few of us, who might experience "love" in the later half of the teen decade. By this time, we have a pretty good definition of love, true love, deeper than the Disney characters, this type of affection could be based on adult Hollywood franchised movies, with excessive physical contact, and plenty of CGI explosions in the background. Also, it would seem that before the teen decade even starts, we might already know some slang words or phases the indicate the activity of "true love". Satisfying Emotional X-itement. If that was not clear enough, thank the educational system for blessing all the minds of children with a strong foundation of knowledge. Moving right along, during the later of half of being a teenager, we could be more driven with our studies, hoping to get accepted in some over-top, too exclusive college/university. Sadly, being a book worm, takes away precious time to find "love". It could be said that teenagers nowadays, don't want to find that one person to love for the rest of their lives, in holy matrimony. Nah, more like find anyone, who has the looks, in order to dump on that person, all of our physical drives. Time well spent? To some people, of course. For others (lacking the looks or smooth moves), it ends up being a wild goose chase, with strangely no goose. Odd to say the least. We are now in college, ready for possibly the most life altering four years of our lives. We cram and cram all so often, and some how some way, we still find the time to seek after "love". Because surely by now, we have mastered time management and how to effectively be in a committed relationship, with slight loop holes included that are for some reason kept a secret from both parties. Odd to say the least. We might get married now in between degrees or after some insane mid-term that could very well have been hell on earth. We do it out of desperation? Nah, more like because we think we know when real "love" hits us. It has something to do with the air, right? However, the majority of us, are finally too caught up in our studies and have decided to get the degree first, then settle down. When really, we could just not be interested in love anymore, because well, we still don't get it and we kinda find love now pretty much a drag. I'll fill you in what happens after college, when I am done, which may take years and years. Normal to say the least.